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My Lover's Never Charming

Not long ago, I was happily married. Life consisted of blowing up balloons at birthday parties, going to parent-teacher conferences, and celebrating anniversaries with champagne, chocolate and flowers. Then one day my marriage collapsed. Shit happens. Divorce followed.

Suddenly I was thrown into a new existence as a single guy in New York. There were dating apps to download and lots of new acronyms to learn. LTR? FWB? GGG? All I could think of was WTF? Reports coming out of the battlefield indicated that dating had become a vicious, brutal sport. I tried to prepare myself by diving head first into the Web, but every article I read was written by a woman; and typically an angry one! The narrative was horribly skewed!

Now I'm back from the front lines with a few stories to tell. What's it really like to be a single guy in the age of swipe-a-romance? Grab a beer and pull up a chair.

NOTE: Based on true events. The names have been changed until the guilty upgrade their phones and lose my contact info.

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Love. Sister. It's Just a Swipe Away!

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Dancing Queen. "I gave all my savings to the mafia so they wouldn't kill him"

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Can you write youself into this soap opera?

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In my next life

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The Brentwood jezebel and 3 Ghosts

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Truth or dare

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Wharton on the West Side

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I'd like to see more enthusiasm

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Stalked by wild vegans

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I'd like to have my orgasm standing at the bar!

Bonus Report.

Kiss of the femme fatale


Written under the influence by J.J. Feck

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Special thanks to AW, AG, CMT who talked me off the ledge on several occasions and provided valuable feedback through the process

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LA restaurants: Toscana, Tavern, Cecconi's, Wabe Sabe, James Beach, Tar & Roses, Rustic Canyon, Ingo's Tasty Diner, Gracias Madre


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